赵丽不仅仅是在教学上严格要求自己，在其他方面都努力做到最好。对她而言只要努力没有办不到的事情，她有自己的人生格言：十分和十二分原则，即，当别人要 求你十分的东西，你给他十二分的东西，你的人生肯定是向上的；当别人付出十分的努力得到一件东西，你付出十二分，那你肯定比他先得到。这句话听起来很容 易，但真正能做到的人不多。按赵丽的话说：“一个人做一件事情，只有专注、认真才能成功，只有钻进‘牛角尖’中，才会见到‘牛角尖’中别样的风景。”
October 3, 2009
September 28, 2009
SUCCESS
A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm.
C.M.Schwab, American brsinessman 无论何事，只要对它有无限的热情你就能取得成功。
美国实业家施瓦布.C.M.
A chievement provides the only real pleasure in life.
Thomas Eeison, American inventor
有所成就是人生唯一的真正的乐趣。
美国发明家爱迪生，T.
Along with success comes a reputation for wisdom.
Euripides, Ancient Greek ramatist 伴随成功的是智慧的闻名遐迩。
古希腊剧作家欧晨庇德斯
Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through expe-rience of trial and suffering
can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared,ambition inspired , and success achieved.
Helen Keller,American writer 要使性格有所发展并非简单之事，只有通过艰难和困苦的磨练才能使心灵强化，视野开阔，雄心振奋，从而达
到成功的目的。
美国作家凯勒H.
I might say that success is won by three things: first, effort;second, more effort;third, still
more effort.
Thomas Hardy, British poet and novelist 可以说成功要靠三件事才能赢得：努力、努力、再努力。
英国诗人、小说家哈代.T.
I succeeded because I willed it; I never hesitated.
Bonapart Napoleon, French emperor 我成功是因为我有决心，从不踌躇。
法国皇帝拿破仑.B.
Only those who have the patience to do simple things perfectly ever acquire the skill to do
difficult things easily.
Friedrich Schiller. Greman dramatist and poet 只有有耐心圆满完成简单工作的人，才能够轻而易举地完成困难的事。
德国剧作家、诗人席勒.F.
People often ask me if I know the secret of success, and if I could tell others how to make their
dreams come true. My answer is, you do it by working.
Walt Disney, American brsinessman 人们时常问我是否晓得成功的诀窍，能否告诉别人怎样使他们的梦想成为现实。我的回答是：身体力行。
美国实业家迪斯尼.W.
Power invariably means both responsibility and danger.
Theodore Roosevelt, American president 实力永远意味着责任和危险。
美国总统罗斯福. T.
Success covers a multitude of blunders.
George bernard Shaw, British ramatist 成功由大量的失误铸就。
英国剧作家肖伯纳。G.
Success often depends upon knowing how long it will take to succeed.
Charles Montesquier, French thinker 成功常常取决于知道需要多久才能成功。
法国思想家孟德斯鸠.C.
The human being longs for a senseof being accomplished, of being able to do things. with his hand, with his mind, with his will. Each of us wants to feel he of she has the ability to do something that is meaningful and that serves a tribute to our inherent abilities.
LeonardR. Saylis, British writer
人们渴求有一种成就感，渴望有能力用自己的手、用自己的脑、用自己的意志办事。我们每个人都希望自己
能够作出有意义、并能显示出自己天赋的事来。
英国作家塞尔斯。L.R.
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they
want,and if they cannot find them, they make them.
George Bernard Shaw, British dramatist 在这个世界上，取得成功的人是那些努力寻找他们想要机会的人，如果找不到机会，他们就去创造机会。
英国剧作家肖伯纳。G.
There is only one success—–to be able to spend your life in your own way.
Morley Christopher, French writer
成功只有一个——既能依自己的方式去度过人生。
法国作家克里斯多夫.M.
Victory won’t come to me unless I go to it.
M. Moore, American pletess 胜利是不会向我走来的，我必须自己走向胜利。
美国女诗人穆尔。M.
Will, work and wait are the pyramidal cornerstones for success.
Louis Pasteur, French chemist 意志、工作和等待是成功的金字塔的基石。
法国化学家巴斯德。L.
You have to believe in yourself.That’s the secret of success.
Charles Chaplin, American actor 人必须相信自己，这是成功的秘诀。
美国演员卓别林.C.
May 24, 2009
Collections
“流泪播种者，必欢呼收割”。千万勿因一时的挫折而气馁，当你突破难关而更上一层楼时，你会发现成功的果实是如此的甘美。
“留给子女金山银山，总有花光的时候。要留给她一身本事，和健康快乐的人生。未来的路还要她自己走。快乐，不是用金钱和名利来衡量的。”
A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm. (C. M. Schwab) 只要有无限的热情，一个人几乎可以在任何事情上取得成功。（施瓦布）
The secret of being miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. (George Bernard Shaw , British dramatist) 痛苦的秘密在于有闲功夫担心自己是否幸福。 (英国剧作家 肖伯纳 . G .)
If you wish to succeed, you should use persistence as your good friend, experience as your reference, prudence as your brother and hope as your sentry. (Thomas Edison, American inventor ) 如果你希望成功，当以恒心为良友、以经验为参谋、以谨慎为兄弟、以希望为哨兵。 (美国发明家 爱迪生. T.)
Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。
No country, however rich, can afford the waste of its human resources.(Franklin Roosevelt, American president) 任何一个国家，不管它多么富裕，都浪费不起人力资源。(美国总统 罗斯富. F.)
All happy families are like one another; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. 所有幸福的家庭都相似，而每个不幸的家庭各不同。 －Leo Tolstoy（俄国文学家托尔斯泰）
A lifetime of happiness! No man alive could bear it; it would be hell on earth. (G. Bernard Shaw, British dramatist )
终身幸福！这是任何活着的人都无法忍受的，那将是人间地狱。(英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G.)
Happy is the man who is living by his hobby .(G. Bernard Shaw , British dramatist )
醉心于某种癖好的人是幸福的。 (英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G .)
Happiness lies not in the mere possession of money ; it lies in the joy of achievement , in the thrill of creative effort .(Franklin Roosevelt , American president )
幸福不在于拥有金钱，而在于获得成就时的喜悦以及产生创造力的激情。(美国总统 罗斯福. F.)
Achievement provides the only real pleasure in life .( Thomas Edison , American inventor)
有所成就是人生唯一的真正乐趣。( 美国发明家 爱迪生. T. )
I succeeded because I willed it ; I never hesitated .(Bonaparte Napoleon , French emperor )
我成功是因为我有决心，从不踌躇 。 (法国皇帝 拿破仑. B .)
Success covers a multitude of blunders .(George Bernard Shaw , British Dramatist)
成功由大量的失望铸就。( 英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G.)
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want , and if they cannot find them .they make them. (George Bernard Shaw , British dramatist )
在这个世界上，取得成功的人是那些努力寻找他们想要机会的人，如果找不到机会，他们就去创造机会。( 英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G.)
You have to believe in yourself . That’s the secret of success .(Charles Chaplin , American actor )
人必须相信自己，这是成功的秘诀。 (美国演员 卓别林. C.)
March 13, 2009
经典英语名言：守望幸福
守望我们的幸福。许多人都在苦苦的寻找属于自己的那份幸福，可有的时候，幸福就在眼前，幸福就在平淡生活中的点滴之间。谁也无法保证让我们终生幸福，但是，幸福是由我们自己守望的，你想要多幸福，其实你就有多么的幸福。
1. A lifetime of happiness! No man alive could bear it; it would be hell on earth. (G. Bernard Shaw, British dramatist )
终身幸福!这是任何活着的人都无法忍受的,那将是人间地狱.(英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G.)
2. Happy is the man who is living by his hobby .(G. Bernard Shaw , British dramatist )
醉心于某种癖好的人是幸福的. (英国剧作家 肖伯纳. G .)
3. Happiness lies not in the mere possession of money ; it lies in the joy of achievement , in the thrill of creative effort .(Franklin Roosevelt , American president )
幸福不在于拥有金钱,而在于获得成就时的喜悦以及产生创造力的激情.(美国总统 罗斯福. F.)
4. Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be .(Abraham Lincoln ,American president )
对于大多数人来说,他们认定自己有多幸福,就有多幸福.(美国总统 林肯. A.)
诺曼·文森特·皮尔励志语录：积极就是力量
诺曼·文森特·皮尔励志语录：积极就是力量。送给所有经历经济以及精神低潮的人们。
诺曼·文森特·皮尔（1898 年5月31日-1993年12月24日）被誉为“积极思考之父”和“美国人宗教价值的引路人”，他致力于向全世界传达他积极思考的主张，他平均一年向一百个团体发表演说，直到他九十三岁那年，亲耳聆听过他的教诲的听众多达两千万人。他曾应尼克松总统之邀向美国国民传递积极思考的讯息，也曾获得里根总统颁发的自由奖章。
“Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude toward it, for that determines our success or failure.”
“我们面前的任何事实都没有我们对待它的态度重要，因为态度决定了我们的成败。”
“Change your thoughts and you change your world.”
“改变你的思想你就能改变你的世界。”
“Formulate and stamp indelibly on your mind a mental picture of yourself as succeeding. Hold this picture tenaciously. Never permit it to fade. Your mind will seek to develop the picture…Do not build up obstacles in your imagination.”
“构想一个你成功的精神画面并把它不可磨灭地印在你的脑海中。顽强地保持这个画面。决不允许这个画面消逝。你的精神就会寻求发展这个画面…不要在你的想象中设立障碍。”
“The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but a lack of will.”
“一个成功人士与其他人之间的区别不是缺乏力量，不是缺乏知识，而是缺乏意志。”
“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.”
“相信自己！相信你的能力！在你自己的力量中，没有谦虚而合理的自信，你就不会成功或幸福。”
“The secret of achievement is to hold a picture of a successful outcome in mind.”
“功成名就的秘密就是在脑海中保持一个成功结局的画面。”
“When every physical and mental resource is focused, one’s power to solve a problem multiplies tremendously.”
“当每一份身体和精神的资源都集中在一起时，一个人解决问题的力量就会急剧增加。”
“Don’t duck the most difficult problems. That just ensures that the hardest part will be left when you are most tired. Get the big one done? It’s downhill from then on.”
“不要逃避最艰难的问题。那只能使得在你最累的时候，把最艰难的部分留给你。解决掉这个大难题，然后就能势如破竹。”
“The way you think about a fact may defeat you before you ever do anything about it. You are overcome by the fact because you think you are.”
“你思考一件事的方式可能会在你做出任何行动之前就已经把你击败。你会被这件事征服，因为你就是这样想的。”
March 3, 2009
经典英语名言：说给年轻人的话
1. Most of it doesn’t matter.So much of what I got excited about, anxious about, or wasted my time and energy on, turned out not to matter. There are only a few things that truly count for a happy life. I wish I had known to concentrate on those and ignore the rest.
拥有一颗平常心。
太多我曾经为其兴奋，为其焦虑，亦或是浪费了我时间以及精力的事情到最后却被证明是无关紧要的。它们只是幸福生活里极其微小的一部分。我多么希望早点知道这些，以便能把精力都投入到这些关乎幸福的事，而不是其他。
2. The greatest source of misery and hatred in this world is clinging to past hurts.Look at all the terrorists and militant groups that hark back to some event long gone, or base their justification for killing on claims of some supposed historical right to a bit of land, or redress for a wrong done hundreds of years ago.
这个世界上痛苦与仇恨最大源泉是对过去的执迷。看看那些恐怖组织和激进分子，他们总是抓住过去的一些事情不放，或把一小片土地的历史归属问题作为他们进行杀戮的理由，更或是为了修正几百年前的所谓的历史错误。
3. Waiting to do something until you can be sure of doing it exactly right means waiting for ever.One of the greatest advantages anyone can have is the willingness to make a fool of themselves publicly and often. There’s no better way to learn and develop. Heck, it’s fun too.
等待有把握时再去做一件事，往往意味着永远的等待。一个人能做的最大的冒险事情，就是乐意在公共场合经常暴露自己的愚昧。没有什么能比这样学得更快。“哎呀”, 也是一种乐趣。
4.Following the latest fashion, in work or in life, is spiritual and intellectual suicide.You can be a cheap imitation of the ideal of the moment; or you can be a unique individual. The choice is yours. Religion isn’t the opiate of the masses, fashion is.
盲目追赶潮流是对精神和智力的扼杀。你可以成为一个廉价的时尚木偶，也可以成为独一无二的你，这些都在于自己的选择。信仰不是群众的鸦片，流行才是。
5. If people complain that you’re too fond of going your own way and aren’t fitting in, you must be on the right track.Who wants to live life as a herd animal? The guys in power don’t want you to fit in for your own sake; they want you to stop causing them problems and follow their orders. You can’t have the freedom to be yourself and meekly fit in at the same time.
如果有人抱怨你太特立独行，恭喜你，你正走在正确的路上。谁愿意像动物一样活着？那些强有力的家伙们不希望你按照自己的意愿去做，他们希望你停止给他们制造麻烦并听从他们的命令。但你得知道，你无法做到在卑躬屈膝的同时又能活出自我。
6. If you make your work your life, you’re making your life into hard work. Like most people,I confused myself by looking at people like artists and musicians whose life’s “work” fills their time. That isn’t work. It’s who they are. Unless you have some overwhelming passion that also happens to allow you to earn a living doing it, always remember that work should be a means to an end: living an enjoyable life. Spend as little time on the means as possible consistent with achieving the end. Only idiots live to work.
如果你将工作等同于生活，那么你将为工作而生活。和很多人一样，当看到那些艺术家 和音乐家的工作几乎是全部的生活，我感到很困惑。其实那不是工作，那是他们的自我。除非你有无法抵挡的激情，恰巧也能让你从中得以谋生，否则请永远记住， 工作只是一种手段，而不是目的，我们的最终目的是享受生活。在实现目的的同时，尽可能地少花时间在手段上。只有傻瓜才是为工作而生活。
7. The quickest and simplest way to wreck any relationship is to listen to gossip.The worst way to spend your time is spreading more. People who spread gossip are the plague-carriers of our day. Cockroaches are clean, kindly creatures in comparison.
破坏关系的最快最简单的方法就是听信谣言。浪费你时间的最糟糕方式是传播这些谣言。传播流言蜚语的人好比瘟疫的携带者，相比之下，蟑螂都比他们干净、善良。
8. Trying to please other people is largely a futile activity. Everyone will be mad at you sometime.Most of the people you deal with will dislike, disparage, belittle, or ignore what you say or do most of the time. Besides, you can never really know what others do want, so a good deal of whatever you do in that regard will go to waste. Be comforted. Those who love you will probably love you regardless, and they are the ones whose opinions are worth caring about. The rest aren’t worth five minutes of thought between them.
试图取悦别人是徒劳无益的做法。总有些人会对你发飙。很多你接触的人，在很多时候也会不喜欢、贬低、轻视或忽略你。另外，你永远也不知道别人真正的需要， 因此你为此所做的所有努力都会付诸东流。放松些吧，爱你的人终究会包容你的过失，他们才是值得我们在乎的人。其他那些人，他们甚至都不值得花5分钟去考 虑。
9. Every winner is destined to be a loser in due course.It’s great to be up on the winner’s podium. Just don’t imagine you can stay there for ever. Worst of all is being determined to do so, by any means available.
没有永久的胜利者。踏上冠军宝座是件好事情。但不要梦想着可以永久占据这个位置，最糟糕的是，你正决定为达此目的而不择手段。
10.You can rarely, if ever, please, placate, change, or mollify an asshole.The best thing you can do is stay away from every one you encounter. Being an asshole is a contagious disease. The more time you spend around one, the more likely you are to catch it and become one too.
不可能取悦、平息或改造一个混蛋。你能做的最好方式，是和他们敬而远之。变成混蛋也能传染，你和他们呆的时间越长，你也越有可能染上混蛋的习气或者你就成为混蛋。
11. Everything takes twiceas long as you plan for and produces results about half as good as you hoped. There’s no reason to be downhearted about this. Just allow for it and move on.
努力加倍，期望减半。任何事情都是花掉你计划的两倍时间，最后却只换来你一半的期望结果。没什么好为此沮丧的，（中国俗话说：事倍功半）让它去吧，你要继续前行。
12. People are oddly consistent.Liars usually tell lies. Cheaters cheat whenever it suits them. A person who confides in you has usually confided in several others first—but not got the response they wanted. A loyal friend will stay loyal under enormous amounts of thoughtless abuse.
人是奇怪的偏执狂。撒谎者总是撒谎，骗子总要行骗。一个人对你倾诉的时候，通常已在其它人的面前倾诉过，只是可能没有得到想要回应。一位忠诚的朋友，无论遭受多大的冤屈依旧忠诚。
13.However hard you try, you can’t avoid being yourself.Who else could you be? You can act and pretend, but the person acting and pretending is still you. And if you won’t accept yourself—and do the best you can with what you have—who then has any obligation to accept you?
接纳自己。不管你怎么努力，你都无法逃避成为自己。除了自己，你还能成为谁呢？你可以扮演和假装，但进行扮演和假装的人还是你自己。如果你都无法接纳自己，没有努力挖掘自己已有的东西，那么谁有义务接纳你呢？
14. When it comes to blatant lies, there are none more egregious than budget figures.Time spent agonizing over them is time wasted. Even if (miracle of miracles!) yours are honest and accurate, no one else will have been so foolish.
谈到公众谎言，没有比预算数字更令人震惊的。把时间折腾在这上面，是浪费时间。既使(奇迹中的奇迹!) 你是实事求是并且准确的, 其他人也不会那么愚蠢。
15. The loudest noise in the world is the sound of people whining.Don’t add to it.
世界上最大的噪音是人们的抱怨。不要再增加了。
